Imagine, as a mother, taking your daughter to a nearby park to play — to be around kids of the same age — so that she understands how she isn’t much “different” from them, even though she’s deemed to be. Imagine committing this act of bravery as a mother to a child with Down’s syndrome and learning a lesson that you carry along with you — for life.
Vernice Jones is that mother; she spends a lot of time worrying when she takes her daughter Pixie Rose, who has Down’s syndrome, out to the park. She expects the stares, but what happened recently — both the cruelty and the kindness — caught her off guard.
What happened?
Pixie, a six-year-old girl with Down’s syndrome, attracts attention. So Vernice, a mum of four, usually sticks to their local playground. But on a whim, she picked Pixie up from school and headed somewhere new — Lostock Hall Park.
Vernice said, "Normally we go to the same park, which is local to our house, but I had a day off, so I picked her up from school and went to a park a bit closer," adding, "It's always a massive worry for me because I know that when people don't know her, she gets stared at.
But Vernice wasn’t expecting the taunts from kids barely older than Pixie.
Per The Mirror, Vernice went to speak to the adults supervising those girls. "They brought them over, but they didn't really do much after that; there was no apology or anything," she revealed.
Then something lovely happened. Another group of girls let Pixie onto the seesaw. Vernice thanked them and explained what had happened earlier. "We'd seen these other girls, and they let Pixie on the seesaw, and I said 'thank you for being really kind with Pixie'.”
Vernice also explained what had happened just before that, and she shared, “One of the girls said, 'I don't understand why they were laughing, she's just human like us', which was a big thing for me from girls at primary school, it was really lovely."
Vernice was floored. For kids that age, at primary school, it was such a pure, honest reaction. She told the Manchester Evening News, "Sometimes we do get laughs and stares and people pointing at her, which is really sad, so to hear that was really heartwarming and really lovely just to understand there are children out there that know that not every child is the same, that children are different and unique and Pixie definitely is that."
Down’s syndrome: What is it?
Down syndrome is a genetic condition where people are born with an extra copy of chromosome 21 (Trisomy 21). That extra bit messes with how the body and brain develop, leading to distinctive features, developmental challenges, and intellectual disability that can range from mild to moderate.
Why does this syndrome happen in the first place? Instead of the typical 46 chromosomes, people with Down syndrome have 47. It’s not caused by anything the parents did; it just happens by chance during cell division.
People with Down syndrome often have a recognizable look: flattened face, almond-shaped eyes, lower muscle tone, and shorter height. They’re at higher risk for heart defects, thyroid problems, vision and hearing issues. They also need extra help with learning, but early intervention, therapies, and support make a huge difference. There’s no cure. But with the right care, people can live fulfilling lives.
Pixie’s story: Life with Down’s syndrome
Pixie’s uphill battle started early. She nearly died when she went into cardiac arrest at four months. She had open heart surgery, and Vernice says, “We lost her for a short while.” Vernice passed her driving test just so she could get to all the appointments Pixie needed. Then they lost Pixie’s mobility car, so that was another fight. Per Vernice, "Not long after that, I passed my driving test to get to appointments, which are quite often now, and then she had her mobility car taken off her, so we were fighting that."
Getting Pixie into the proper school was another hill to climb. It’s been hard, plain and simple.
Pixie, who struggles with hearing and wears hearing aids, is what her mum calls “a cheeky little girl always so happy.” She brightens the lives of her siblings: Madison (20), Poppy (17), and Rocco (13). The whole family, including dad Martin, is tight-knit. When Pixie was born with Down’s syndrome, it was a shock, but her siblings have been her biggest champions from the start.
Vernice mentioned, "Pixie lives with myself, her dad Martin and her siblings, who have always been her biggest supporters right from birth when she was a birth diagnosis, so quite a shock for us," adding, "They are the most favourite people in her life. She loves them so much and they love her and have her back always."
Despite everything, Pixie is thriving. She’s a Year 1 pupil at Royal Cross Primary School for Deaf Children in Preston, and is making excellent progress in her studies, where every lesson is delivered in British Sign Language — and she has fully mastered that now.
"Pixie likes to go swimming on a Sunday morning as she struggles with pains in her legs due to hypermobility and physio have said this will help her," said her mum, who is appealing the decision to remove Pixie's mobility car. "She also goes cheerleading. It's the one hobby I've found that's inclusive so she sees people just like her and the exercises she does also help the pains she gets in her legs."
Pixie’s heart will need more surgery down the line. There’s no timeline yet. Meanwhile, Vernice is fighting to get her daughter’s mobility car back, since swimming is a must for Pixie’s physio.
After the incident at Lostock Hall Park, Vernice posted online, trying to find the parents of the girls who’d helped Pixie. “They were so lovely with her! You’ve done a great job raising them!” she wrote.
A couple of parents responded. Leanne Yates, whose ten-year-old Elissa was part of the group, said her daughter got home and talked about “the cute little girl at the park” and didn’t even think of what she’d done as special — “everyone should be treated the same.” Sharon Romain, whose daughter Thea was with friends Phoebe and Scarlett, said she’s proud of Thea’s compassion.
Now, Pixie is a bit of a TikTok star, with over 16,000 followers on her journey account. Vernice took a break from the platform after trolling got nasty, but she’s back. The feedback is overwhelming, and people say Pixie’s smile gets them through hard days, especially parents who’ve lost kids with Down’s syndrome. Vernice feels Pixie’s joy is a gift worth sharing.
And that pretty much is the point. Despite the hurdles, Pixie keeps spreading joy, and her mum keeps fighting for her. That moment of joy at the park after the disappointment when those girls who stood up for her — that reminds you there’s still kindness out there, and that Pixie belongs just as much as anyone does.