The right way to masturbate

<p>Masturbation is something that a guy discovers and masters the skill on his own. While doing it is completely normal and most men do it regularly, here are some pointers you need to keep in mind to ensure you are doing it right…<br></p>

<p>If you are one of those who cannot get excited without watching porn, then it’s a sign you might be actually addicted to it. And if that’s the case, it’s time to reboot your brain! Abstain yourself from porn for some time and try to put an end to porn-induced masturbation. The period may vary from a few weeks to a few months but it will surely recondition your brain and make it a natural experience!<br></p>

<p>The idea of ejaculating in a healthy way is to get your imagination as realistic as possible to sex in real life. Extreme pornographic imaginary can certainly lead to some unrealistic expectations and ergo can cause trouble when it comes to real sex. For instance, it may cause performance anxiety. The men in porn videos pop Viagra or similar pills to attain erection for hours. You might know this thing but unconsciously you tend to create expectations about how sex should be.<br></p>

<p>If you're in a long-distance relationship or your partner is away, you can make things exciting via sexting. This will make your imagination only realistic. Talk to her about 'old times' and tell her what all is going on in your head. <br></p>

<p>To make things exciting, you can even try some lube. Stroking yourself with some gel will give help you to achieve orgasm faster. Regular dry masturbation can also be harsh on your skin and gets mundane after some point of time. <br></p>

<p>Rather than just delighting your visual (by the way of imagination) senses, try involving others as well- smell, sound, and touch. Involving all of them might take some time as you have been dependent on porn till now, but once you achieve it; it is a completely different experience.<br></p>

<p>If you are doing it for the first time without pornography, don’t keep your expectations high. You are trying to figure out a new and better route, so just go with the flow. Remember that there is nobody watching or judging you, and your goal of the session is to make it a natural experience.<br></p>

<p>When it comes to real sex, premature ejaculation or masturbating quickly can be a bummer for your partner. A woman needs 10 to 15 minutes to get in the mood and achieve orgasm…this time includes penetration, foreplay and clitoral stimulation. So, it’s important for you to take it slow initially, and extend your masturbation session to match up your partner's pace. Try to extend your stamina and you can also give a try to Kegel exercises for better results. <br></p><p>(Images: Shutterstock)</p>