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Men’s biggest bedroom fears revealed

TNN | Last updated on - Aug 18, 2017, 17:16 IST
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Eight men confess their worst nightmare in bed

Yes, you read it right. No matter how macho or outspoken they may pretend to be about sex, guys too have bedroom fears. Some may worry that their penis might not be big enough, while others suffer from ‘performance anxiety’. Here’s what eight guys had to say about their worst nightmare in the bedroom:

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​Rise to the occasion or not

<p>Getting an erection, or not, when the occasion demands, is a dilemma that I had gone through a lot of times. I call it the ‘horror of performance anxiety’. Even after being a good performer in bed for long, I still fear that there will be a hot girl in front of me and I wouldn’t be able to put up a good show.<br></p>
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​Not lasting long

<p>Ah! That is still a big nightmare. When I was very young and still a novice, I used to get excited very easily, which made me ejaculate fast. Nothing is as scary as staring at the disappointed face of a partner after sex.<br></p>
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​Not big enough

<p>Let me confess an ugly truth—we are as concerned about the size of our dicks as girls are about their bust size. I was always scared that I was not well-endowed, and watching porn stars with their prized possession only made matters worse. <br></p>
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​What if she didn’t orgasm

<p>Female orgasm is a big mystery for me. I have had a steady relationship for long and my partner doesn’t hesitate to share when she doesn’t climax. And every time she says that, it really hurts. Yes, I constantly worry about her not having an orgasm.<br></p>
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​Is she faking it?

<p>I once had a physical relationship with a girl whose orgasmic shouts used to wake up our neighbours. Once when we fought, she confessed that she was actually faking it. Now, every time I make a woman moan, I take it with a pinch of salt.<br></p>
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​Being a laughing stock

<p>I have seen many of my female friends discussing their sex life. And I am worried that my girlfriend would do the same. She named my penis ‘popsicle’ and the thought that she might be having a good laugh over it, really made me nervous.<br></p>
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​Saying no to fantasy

<p>I love wild sex and have some crazy fantasies. But I am afraid that not all girls will approve of what is my idea of a great session in the sack. In fact, once when I asked a girlfriend to do sex blindfolded, she refused plainly. I grew very cautious after that.<br></p>
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Fart fear

Farting is not something that I am ashamed of and I pass gas without any hesitation. When I had sex for the first time, I was constantly worried that I might fart while we were engaged in the act.

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