Things husbands wished their wives knew about sex

Sex isn’t just about intercourse, it’s so much more than that. It’s about confidence, spontaneity, trust, enjoyment, and emotional bonding. Sex in marriage is no longer about pleasuring and satisfying your partner but also tending to the emotional bonds. However, couples slowly start losing their spark in the relationship due to the lack of confidence, self-esteem issues, etc., and inevitably, sex becomes dull. But, quite interestingly, husbands have a lot to say about marriage and sex that women probably haven’t anticipated yet. So, here listed are few things husbands wished their wives knew about sex.

Husbands wished their wives would just stop thinking so much and engage in some kinky, fun sex at home. Thinking or even scheduling sex makes it extremely mundane and losing the streak of excitement is something no one wants. Initiating sex from her side also makes it fun for all the men out there, who have a chance to lay back and watch their woman do all the work!

Many husbands wished their wives knew the level of connection sex provides. It builds intimacy considerably and also allows positive thoughts to flow in, which strengthens the marital bond. Besides feeling connected, it gives a feeling of security that the two people trust each other enough to share their bodies and feel connected emotionally and mentally.

Being conscious about the belly rolls, cellulite, arm fat is what men want women to never think about. What they love the most is how optimistic and loving their wives are. For husbands, the definition of sexy starts with a confident woman who can take care of herself, act maturely, and love her family and partner with all sincerity.

Faking the big ‘O’ is a big NO! Men feel inferior and insecure when they catch women faking their sexual pleasure. If women can wholeheartedly enjoy themselves by telling their partners what exactly they like in bed, it’s a win-win situation for the couple. Being sexually adventurous is a bonus.

Women need to stop thinking so much and relax more to enjoy sex. Husbands love it when women are very confident of themselves and not when they are doubting their abilities to pleasure in the bedroom. Flirting, dirty-talking, erotic dress-up can instantly turn on a man!