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Confessions of women married to older men

TIMESOFINDIA.COM | Last updated on - Apr 8, 2023, 12:22 IST
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Here are some confessions

It is no longer a rare phenomena for a woman to marry a much older man. We spoke to some of these women to know about their experience, which will surely take you by surprise! Scroll down to know what they shared and what should be considered indeed.

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He knows what to do in bed

I always wanted to marry an older man because they are more experienced. When I met my now husband I turned out to be in luck! He is fantastic in bed! Surprisingly, he is the submissive one between us and knows how to please! He does everything I always wanted and what you see in movies, he is all of that! My orgasms are mind-blowing and I wish every woman gets a man like him!

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The generation gap is too much

We were madly in love when we got married but over the months, I realised there is a huge generation gap and that has led to a lot of frustration in me. He keeps calm but I lose it at so many levels. He is 12 years older than me. I am in my 30s, he in his 40s and we have been married for 3 years. I chose this life so I am working on it every day. Sex with him was great initially but now he keeps complaining about his aches and pains which restricts so many things that I wanted to do under the sheets. He even looks down upon PDA which I earlier thought was his personality but one day he said: “you youngsters have no shame”. Either I make my peace with it or go for a divorce. These are my only options and this makes me so sad.

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It was no where close to what Shahid-Mira, Saif & Kareena share

When Saif & Kareena and then Shahid Kapur & Mira married, I thought this was it! This is what I want! I told my parents to look for a match 10 years older than me. We are baniyas so my parents were okay with it. They found me a rich older man with a good status and I was more in love with that fact than his personality. Little did I know that I had ended my own happiness! He dotes on me but he treats me like a child. His libido is good but he is very rigid so missionary is all I get. My mother-in-law, who is my grandmother’s age, turned out to be my worst nightmare. I had not realised that his mom will be way older if he is older, his mom will be way older. They got after my life to have a child because he is turning old and my MIL is in her 70s. I am just 25 and my dream to be Mira was smothered within 7 days of my marriage. I am still very confused about whether I should go on like this, accept it or should I leave because his family is very rich and influential and my parents won’t like my decision either.


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Read also: Top 15 complaints of unhappy husbands

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Celeb couples with age difference

Wives being more than 10 years younger is very common now. Ee have several inspiring couples in the film industry including Sanjay Dutt & Manyata, Shahid Kapoor & Mira Rajput, Kareena Kapoor & Saif Ali Khan, George Cloony & Amal Alamuddin, Blake Lively & Ryan Reynolds, Jay-Z and Beyonce,

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Men mature late compared to women. Marriages with huge age gap are mostly successful.
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