4 sex positions that boost confidence and body positivity

Feeling insecure about your body, being unsure about yourself, wavering confidence are common for everyone. Even if some people say they have never experienced it, it cannot be entirely true. If you are in a relationship and are regular with the sex then there are some sex positions that will indeed help you deal with these insecurities and bosst your confidence. Scroll down, take notes, bookmark this page and pick the position that resonates the most with you.

Missionary sex is old school but it is one sex position that depends a lot on intimacy. It tells you a lot about your camaraderie. It shows you how your partner feels. It is your eyes that do the talking along with your body language.

This position is the best if you are into booty. All you have to do is support yourself on your knees and hands and arch your back for proper penetration. You can also support the lower part of your body with a pillow as that hides your tummy. This position is perfect when you want your G-spot stimulated.

Riding your partner by facing him would be one of the best ways to boost your confidence. Just like mirror sex, this position lets you see how your partner enjoys your body. Lean back, ask him to feel you. If you are the man here then let your partner graze through your hair, touch your chest and arms while she rides you. You will know that in the end it is all about being in sync and considering the pleasure you give each other rather than what scars your body may or may not have.

In this position, all you have to do is face your fear and that is to watch yourself have sex in front of the mirror. Watch yourself, your partner and how he or she enjoys what you do or feel. This gives a boost to your confidence as you realise that he/she doesn't care about the stretch marks, the stomach fat, the thigh dimples or anything else that is taking a toll on your confidence.

Sex is the only way to open up, appreciate your own body, accept the way it is and build self confidence. There are many instances where even the fittest of people have felt that they lack something and they feel very negatively about their body. The best path to help even your partner here is appreciate their every little inch of skin and let them know that it is natural and that you love it or simply do not care about these things.

“I think your whole life shows in your face and you should be proud of that.” ―Lauren Bacall.

“You have been criticizing yourself for years and it hasn’t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens.” —Louise Hay

“Stop trying to fix your body. It was never broken.” —Eve Ensler

“Lines can be the etchings of your biggest smiles, the frowns you learned from, the proof that you change and grow.” ―Eleanor Gordon-Smith

“Stop spending all day obsessing, cursing, perfecting your body like it’s all you’ve got to offer the world. Your body is not your art, it’s your paintbrush.” —Glennon Doyle

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