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7 sex secrets women want men to know

Last updated on - May 28, 2015, 15:26 IST
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7 sex secrets women want men to know

Seven sex secrets women wish their partner knew...(Thinkstock Photos/ Getty Images)
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7 sex secrets women want men to know

A good talk is a great aphrodisiac: Many women find talk a great turn-on. For them, talking and feeling loved are very important. Good conversation during walks or while the couple is relaxing can be a great aphrodisiac. A man could tell his woman how much he loves her, which acts as a reassurance that he is with her mentally during those intimate moments. (Thinkstock Photos/ Getty Images)
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7 sex secrets women want men to know

Many women are anxious about their looks: For a couple that has been together for long, sometimes it is natural that women may feel that their partner may find them less alluring. Because of this some women undress only under the cover of darkness. Caring men can sense such anxieties. There is no need to lie and say she's gorgeous if she isn't, nor is there a need to say that she is not attractive anymore. One can always appreciate and praise what you do find attractive. (Thinkstock Photos/ Getty Images)
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For a woman sex isn't separate from rest of her life: On the other hand, men tend to compartmentalise, feeling that stressful aspects of life can be parked mentally and separated from sexual activity. Women need good feelings and experiences during the day to have satisfying sex. How her lover treats her out of bed, greatly influences her response in bed. Inattentiveness, harsh language, rude tones, hurtful words, and criticism can make it difficult for a woman to get involved, feel enthusiastic and be passionate during sex. (Thinkstock Photos/ Getty Images)
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An orgasm is not a necessity: Many men feel that a good lover is one who can bring his woman to climactic sexual culmination. It is great to have such moments, but aren't always essential. Many women feel pressure from partners and even from themselves to reach an orgasm. Sometimes instead of having orgasms, women prefer to engage in just foreplay. (Thinkstock Photos/ Getty Images)
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Sex need not be a serious act: Playfulness is a great quality. Many men are far too serious about sex. They forget to laugh, be romantically mischievous, have fun. Playfulness and light-heartedness can make intimate moments enjoyable and relaxing. This takes performance pressure off from both partners. (Thinkstock Photos/ Getty Images)
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Women cherish non-sexual touching and tenderness: Women love romance, cuddling, hand-holding and kissing. But many women complain that their men never do this except during foreplay. A woman should make her man realise the joy of touching. As you give him a relaxing massage and stroke his face and hair tenderly, he starts experiencing the joy of this kind of non-sexual touching. Tell your man what makes you feel loved and wanted. (Thinkstock Photos/ Getty Images)
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Warm attention after sex is important: A woman's need for tender moments goes beyond the actual lovemaking. Some women complain that men fall asleep immediately after the act. It is true that when a man is having sex, his endorphin level is very high. Almost immediately after ejaculation, he goes through a refractory phase where he loses his erection and all his systems gear down. In females this phase happens gradually. However, if you don't like him falling asleep immediately, tell him without putting him down. Alternatively, let him sleep in your arms for a few minutes and gently wake him up afterwards. (Thinkstock Photos/ Getty Images)

(Inputs by Dr Rajan B Bhonsle, Consultant in Sexual Medicine and Counsellor)

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