7 "Mean Girl" Moments of Meghan Markle that left the world wondering about her

Meghan Markle is all about kindness, girl power, and glowing positivity, at least that’s what her brand “With love, Meghan” would have you believe. But behind those carefully curated Instagram quotes and polished interviews, there’s a different story bubbling up. From cold stares to behind-the-scenes drama, more and more people are asking: Is Meghan’s sweet image all an act?

Let’s break down the moments that have everyone whispering: Is Meghan the ultimate Hollywood mean girl?

Meghan’s new cooking show was supposed to be all warm and fuzzy, until Chef Roy Choi played a song she didn’t like. Meghan’s reaction? A stiff-lipped glare that looked like pure judgment. No words needed. Her face said it all: annoyed, unimpressed, possibly insulted. It was quick, but yikes. If that’s how she reacts to a simple music choice, imagine the behind-the-scenes drama.

Flashback to 2018, Meghan was promoting her cookbook to support Grenfell Tower survivors. Her mom, Doria Ragland, was right by her side. But when Doria gently interrupted her? Meghan’s face dropped. Like, instantly. Her smile disappeared, and she shot her mom a look that screamed, “Don’t.” Fans caught it, critics noted it, and honestly, it gave major Regina George energy. If that’s how she treats her mother in public, what’s happening in private?

So many of Meghan’s former staff are locked behind NDAs, but a few brave souls have spilled the tea anonymously. The verdict? Not good. Words like “snappy,” “impossible,” and “barking orders” keep popping up. Multiple sources, from her royal days to her Hollywood hustle, say the same thing: Meghan can be a nightmare boss. And if that many people are saying it? Hmm...

Remember Archetypes, Meghan’s podcast about uplifting women? Turns out she didn’t actually do much of the work. Insiders say she only interviewed a few close friends like Serena Williams and left the rest to her team. But when awards rolled in? She took all the credit, and didn’t even mention the folks behind the scenes. Empowerment... or just stealing the spotlight?

In early 2025, Vanity Fair dropped a juicy exposé with inside dirt from Meghan’s team. According to staff, she was so moody and intense, they nicknamed her “Eva" after a character in Queen Bee who’s charming in public but vicious in private. Former employees said she micromanaged everything and lashed out instead of giving feedback. It’s giving major diva vibes.

When Meghan’s Netflix series didn’t do well, guess who caught the heat? Not Meghan. She allegedly freaked out on the marketing team, blamed her agency, WME, and demanded everything be fixed immediately. Multiple sources say she expected everyone to read her mind and then flipped out when things didn’t go her way. Accountability? Doesn’t seem like her strong suit.

People like Oprah and Gwyneth Paltrow probably get Meghan’s best side - warm, charming, and polished. But according to those who’ve worked for her, it’s a whole other story. They say her kindness is totally dependent on status. If you’re powerful, she’s lovely. If you’re not? Good luck. It’s a classic two-faced behavior that some even call... narcissistic.

Of course, no one’s perfect. But with so many whispers, stares caught on camera, and behind-the-scenes drama... It’s getting harder to believe that Meghan’s girlboss persona is the whole story. Maybe that smile is just for show, and the real Meghan is a little more “mean girl” than “duchess.”

Meghan Markle is an American actress, activist, and the Duchess of Sussex. She gained fame starring in the TV series Suits before marrying Prince Harry in 2018. Known for her humanitarian work and advocacy, she stepped back from royal duties in 2020 to focus on independent ventures with Harry.