Breaking bread and barriers at inter-faith iftars

It was an eclectic mix of people at the iftar get-together organised by a local businessman, Tariq Khan, at his farmhouse in Bhadbhada Road. Keeping the food preferences in mind, the spread was a mix of vegetarian and non-vegetarian dishes. Dressed in white

Pathani

kurtas and

pajamas

, the guests shared the lavish meal over a discussion on the importance of an inter-faith iftar. Tariq said, “We all eat at each other’s places, but I realised that some of my friends had never attended an iftar. Even though I organise iftar every year for my Muslim friends, this year I felt that there is a need to go beyond this tradition. So, I invited some of my friends who have never attended an iftar. This is important to break the stereotypes and prejudices.”

One of the guests at Tariq’s farmhouse was cinematographer Manish Gupta. Since this was his first iftar, he was curious to understand the traditions and customs. “I had a vague understanding of the traditions followed during Ramzan, but I am glad I attended this meet. I am also quite touched by the concept of

zakat

(charity). This experience was heartwarming,” he said.
Food is a great way to bond and people at this meet understood this concept perfectly. “The guests were made to sit around a thaal. We all prayed before breaking the fast and had dates and water. The spread was scrumptious. There were fresh juices, hot vegetarian and non-vegetarian starters and main course. I was amazed to see the variety of food that was being served. Everybody’s choice was kept in mind. I will also plan a similar party during Diwali this year,” added Nitesh Paliya, a businessman.

While this trend is gaining popularity in the city, there are some like Aiman Zubair who have grown up experiencing inter-faith iftar parties at home. Aiman, a student, revealed, “Since childhood, I have seen my parents’ friends from all religious backgrounds come to our house during Ramzan and have iftar and dinner with us. It feels nice to explain the different customs and traditions that we follow and their significance. One of my friends even observes roza for the entire day just to value the occasion.” Ameena Arif, who is a freelance writer, added, “Just because a person who belongs to a particular faith attends Ramzan, Diwali or Christmas celebrations does not mean that he or she has changed their religion. It is just a good gesture of inclusivity.”

- Farzana Patowari