Should school students be on social media before 16 or have we simply normalised a risk because it is convenient?In this episode of TOI Eduthon Season 2, TOI Education editor Saswati Sarkar confronts a question policymakers across the world are no longer avoiding. While India operates largely on platform-based age limits (typically 13+), countries like Australia have drawn a firm line at 16. Parts of Europe are tightening age floors, and the United Kingdom is increasing regulatory pressure on platforms through stricter safety compliance. The debate has shifted. It’s no longer “Is social media good or bad?” It’s: Who is responsible for protecting children? Parents, schools, platforms, or the child?Round 1 explores the early warning signs. From a school leader’s lens: what shows up first in classrooms — drifting attention, peer drama spilling offline, performative anxiety shaped by trends? From a clinical perspective: how exactly does social media disrupt adolescent sleep, attention span, and mood regulation? What patterns do mental health professionals repeatedly observe — delayed sleep cycles, irritability, attention fragmentation? From a parent’s view: what is the earliest subtle shift that signals harmless scrolling is becoming emotionally disruptive?Round 2 separates access from addiction. Having a smartphone is not an addiction. Access alone is not pathology. But when does use turn compulsive? We unpack the difference between availability, responsible use, and dependency. The panel debates realistic school regulations like phone policies, digital citizenship classes, reporting mechanisms and where institutional responsibility ends. At home, what rules actually work? Which bans backfire and push teenagers toward secrecy and secondary accounts?Round 3 looks ahead. If schools were to co-create a policy for under-16 students, what would be workable? Phased permissions by age, supervised access models, or formal school–parent compacts? From a brain development standpoint, is 16 a meaningful cognitive threshold? Or should maturity and impulse control matter more than chronology?This is not a moral panic. It is a governance question. It is a parenting strategy question. It is a mental health question. And most importantly, it is a future-readiness question.Watch this episode for structured insight, evidence-backed perspectives, and practical rules every parent and educator can apply immediately.