Neha Marda opens up about her last-minute emergency C-Section delivery, says, "Doctor had asked Bache ko bachaye ya Maa ko?'

Neha Marda, who delivered a baby girl in April this year, is enjoying the motherhood phase to the fullest. The Balika Vadhu actress in her latest vlog opened up about the complications she faced in her emergency C-Section delivery. She also talked about how there was a point when the doctor had asked her family whom to save, the baby or the mother. Neha while talking to ETimes TV recently spoke about how her daughter's birth has changed her husband Ayushman Agarwal and how her in-laws are preparing to welcome their baby girl home. (Photo: Instagram)

She shared in her video, "Everybody is messaging me and wanting to know if I had a C-Section delivery. Well, to make it very clear, I had a super urgent C-section, which was definitely not planned. Shuru se aisa tha I might go for a normal delivery. But due to an emergency and my BP fluctuations, my BP was going haywire... jo ki bahut fluctuate kar raha tha, humein yeh decision lena pada." (Photo: Instagram)

There was a time when actually doctors had a meeting with my family asking ke bache ko bachaya jaaye ya maa ko (should we save the mother or the kid). Obviously main yeh saare sawalo se bahut door thi because my family was there to support me and take the decision. My husband, mother were there to take the decision. But I was aware of it." (Photo: Instagram)

There are times when it is decided in advance if the delivery will be C-Section or normal because of the graph of the pregnancy. But there are also times when you don't know till the last moment. But it doesn't matter C-Section ho yaa Normal delivery, the ultimate goal is to have a healthy baby. I really want to request everyone jinko bhi ye lagta hai ke C-section hua hai, unko yeh na feel karaye, arey apne toh apne liye easy process kar liya. Pata sabko chlata hai dard sabko hota hai kisi ko pehle kisi ko baad mein. Importance yeh hai ki we have a healthy baby. That's what happened to me. (Photo: Instagram)

Neha shared with ETimes TV about her husband's happiness, "My husband is very happy. He is over the moon but obviously he is not staying with us at my mom’s place because he is working also. But every week he travels. I keep telling him it is not necessary to travel every week to Kolkata from Patna, you can take a break. For the first time he feels it is necessary to be with us. He wants to comeback every week and meet her. So every week he somehow manages to take out one or two days and travels to Kolkata." (Photo: Instagram)

Talking about her husband Ayushman, Neha told ETimes TV, "My hubby spends a lot of time with our daughter. I am very happy to see a lot of change in Ayushman because he was never like this, not even for me. We both have been ambitious people, we work hard then catch-up, party hard and we chill and enjoy time. But he has never done this like travelling every week to a different state to meet someone. He has never done this for anybody which he is doing for his daughter and I’m very happy that he’s expressing for the first time. " (Photo: Instagram)

Neha shared with ETimes TV exclusively, "Every day my mother-in-law will ask what did the doctor say. I tell her “mom kal hi toh aap se baat hui thi Aaj naya kya bolenge doctor.' She just wants to know when I’ll be back with the baby to Patna. More than me, Meri beti ka intezaar hai. They want to meet her and then the family will be complete. They have planned that they are going to take leave from their office. My mother-in-law also works and my father-in-law has also decided to take a break of two months." (Photo: Instagram)

"They are planning Patna mein kaisi party throw karenge and who all should be invited and what are the return gifts. Everything is getting planned. They are waiting for me to go back. We have a puja after 40 days of baby’s birth and that’s going to happen on June 8 in Kolkata. It is called the naamkaran puja so after June 15 I should be back in Patna," she told ETimes TV. (Photo: Instagram)

Yes, we have shortlisted a lot of names, but my father-in-law is very stiff that he wants to name our daughter the one that he has in his mind. I believe whatever he has thought of, I’m fine with it. I’m not that stubborn a daughter-in-law ke maine joh socha wahi hoga… with so much belief and love if they are thinking I don’t think I’ve to put my brains into those things. I’m leaving the decision to my mother-in-law and father-in-law. (Photo: Instagram)