Should you say ‘I do’? 7 signs your man is a keeper

Saw that ring hiding in your man’s wardrobe? Or perhaps got a hint that he will be popping the question soon? Either ways, if you are here reading this, it means you are struggling to take a decision. You are somewhere between wanting to be with this man, and yet not entirely sure whether he is the one. Yes, we get it. It’s certainly not the easiest decision to make. After all, forevers are forever! Engagement and marriage is a life long commitment, and choosing the right partner is a pivotal decision in life. Before you put together a wedding Pinterest board or get your nails done, let’s help you with the decision making. Here are 7 solid signs that hint he is a keeper!

He talks respectfully even during heated arguments

Girl, if your man continues to treat you with respect even amidst the worst arguments, he is a green flag. No, a rather green forest! Because in any relationship, especially a romantic one, respect should be the foundation. It should be placed even before love, because the latter is pointless without respect. So if your man knows respect is non-negotiable, congratulations you found the right one.

He talks about his feelings

If he is open and transparent with you about his ‘feelings’, give him a brownie point. This means he is serious about you and is opening his heart up for you. Well, that indeed is a good place to stay, don’t you think? Also, this is the communication that will help you in the long run. Most often couples struggle with the uncertainty of not being able to understand the opposite person. If he is talking about his feelings, consider it a great match.

He makes you feel like the ONLY girl in the universe for him

A man who is obsessed with you is indeed the ideal one for marriage. Take a trip down the memory lane. Does your man act like you are the only one in the whole wide world? Is he awestruck by the woman you are? Does he adore and admire you? He thinks you are the finest woman on this earth? If yes, girl what are you waiting for? Go get him. He is an absolute keeper!

He hasn’t tried to change you, nor does he plan to

The best relationships are those where people are accepted for who they are. When your man hasn’t tried to change a thing about you, know that this person loves you for who you are. And that’s the finest quality to have. Because you will not have to ‘adjust’ or lose your identity by marrying him. Isn’t that what we all seek for?

He gets angry when someone tries to destroy your peace

We all deserve the person who goes to war with us, not against us. And if your man is always trying his best to protect your peace, he could be your soulmate. Because trust us, in life you will meet with different obstacles and at that point your significant others should be fighting the war with you, not against you. Because fighting with the outside world is easy, but with dear ones? It’s self-destruction. If your man is someone who would hunt down your frenemy, or your annoying boss, keep him!

You don’t have to be ‘perfect’ around him

No one is perfect. In fact, perfection is a myth. Our flaws are what makes us human, and unique. So if you don’t have to put on an act in-front of him, Voilà! You found your ‘the one’. Because in the long term, all the masks will be unveiled, and so it is always the best to not pretend to be someone else. And isn’t it great that your partner sees you for who you are?

He is your biggest cheerleader

He respects your goals, and is your biggest cheerleader? Sister, get him. Because this is a man who wants to see you win, always. He is the kind of person, who is unbothered by your success. There will hardly be any power play, as you move ahead. When you are building a life together, it is important that you surround yourself with the best people.

So, is your man a keeper? Feel free to drop your thoughts in the comments below!