Prepare to be fed to death! A Dutch woman’s honest tips for surviving India (and loving it)

Ivana, a Dutch content creator residing in India, shared her insightful experiences, highlighting the country's unparalleled hospitality rooted in 'Atithi Devo Bhava.' She emphasizes the importance of family bonds and suggests allocating ample time for the Taj Mahal, advising visitors to respect local customs like modest dress near the Ganga.
Prepare to be fed to death! A Dutch woman’s honest tips for surviving India (and loving it)
Many foreign travelers have shared their impressions of India, and due to social media, we also get to know what they think about our country. Likewise, a recent post by a Dutch content creator has gone viral, and has also caught our attention, for its refreshingly honest and relatable take on the country. Ivana, who is not just touring but actually living in India, shared ten things she wished she had known before arriving, and these are insights that quickly struck a chord with social media users.

Hospitality like nowhere else

We know this. Ivana also began her post by praising India’s legendary warmth and hospitality. Referring to the phrase Atithi Devo Bhava, which translates to “The guest is God,” she warned newcomers to “prepare to be fed to death,” highlighting how deeply ingrained generosity is in everyday life.

Family and culture

She also pointed out that family plays an immense role in Indian society. For first-time travellers, she recommended befriending local families to truly understand how important these bonds are.

Taj Mahal and Ganga tips

Offering practical advice, Ivana suggested allocating at least two to three days for Agra to enjoy the Taj Mahal without feeling rushed. She stressed arriving at sunrise for tickets and reminded travelers that the monument remains closed on Fridays.
She also described the Ganga River in Rishikesh as “minty green” and surreal, cautioning visitors about modest dress codes, strong currents, and icy waters.Read more: 10 rare Indian animals and where they are found

Sarees and social etiquette

Ivana shared her personal struggle with wearing a saree for the first time, admitting it was difficult but surprisingly comfortable once draped. She encouraged asking for help from locals. On greetings, she explained cultural nuances, touching elders’ feet for blessings, offering a Namaste to men.

Busting the overcrowding myth

Countering a common stereotype, Ivana noted that India is not always overcrowded. Early mornings and rural areas, she said, reveal a calmer side of the country, provided tourists are mindful of where they go.Read more: 10 national parks where leopards rule the landscape

Daily adventures

From calling Punjabis the “party animals of India” to raving about rickshaw rides that never get old, Ivana celebrated the everyday adventures that make India unique. She also highlighted the distinct cultures and languages of each state, underscoring the country’s incredible diversity.

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