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Why affordable dates are a smarter option

Grand, luxurious and expensive dates are overrated. Opting for a ... Read More
Grand, luxurious and expensive dates are overrated. Opting for a cute, affordable date is what many people are going for now. With money being such an important aspect of our life, single Indians are being open about their finances while dating. And let’s be honest, it is better to talk about this now rather than later.

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In fact, a survey from Bumble, a dating app revealed that over 41% of single Indians would pick a free activity i.e. walk in the park, beach or have a picnic outdoors when they have the stress of finances picking on them. Some people cook dinners to avoid going out on a date when they are faced with financial restrictions. Some people prefer to split the cost while some like to go to venues where there are longer happy hours with discounted costs.

How important is it to talk about money during dating?Realising money is extremely important in your life is when you know talking about it with your partner is equally important. Around 70% of single adults surveyed revealed that they would be comfortable with salary and financial stability when they are dating someone. Bumble revealed a new term, ‘Infladating’ where singles are more open to choosing affordable and low-key dating in India.

"We are often afraid of breaching the topic of finances whilst dating. There is no harm in mentioning that you are being a bit more budget conscious at the moment before you go on a date. Don't be afraid to have the conversation before deciding on an IRL date and suggest an alternative if something's not within your budget. That way you're not ending up in a situation where you found yourself on a date having to pay for something you can't afford.” shared Samarpita Samaddar, India Communications Director, Bumble.

If you are looking to take your partner on a budget-friendly date, then let’s take a look at these tips!


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Go out in natureA trip to the beach or an evening stroll is low-key and a great way to get to know your date better! The fresh air of nature will help you to rejuvenate your mind and body and will make you feel even more refreshed on a date.

Street-food stall hoppingInstead of going to a grand restaurant or an expensive cafe, opt for a street food stall-hopping date. With lip-smacking food in many stalls and a variety to choose from, this kind of date can be a great idea to bond with your partner.

Extended hours at bars and venues Many places offer extended happy hours and even live music which can be a great way to get to know your partner’s tastes in music.

Get creative in the kitchenCooking at home keeps date costs at a minimum, so once you’ve been on a few dates and feel comfortable inviting your date home, get creative with your date to cook up some new recipes together. It can be quite a fun date!

Walking or cycling datesCycling dates are a great way for fitness and nature freaks to bond. Walking with your partner in a park is also a great idea!

Here are some things that you can do

When every sign indicates your partner’s infidelity, coming around the fact can be extremely difficult. It can be emotionally draining and devastating for you to come to terms with your partner’s infidelity. You may not understand how to react to such a situation because this can alter the situation in your family or relationship to an unimaginable extent. To help you figure out, here are some things you can do after you find out that your partner has cheated.

It is okay to cry in the ugliest way possible. Your heart and trust have been broken and it is only fair to allow yourself to mourn such a situation. Crying doesn't make you weak; it only makes you stronger as it helps you to vent out to a large extent. If you also need to scream your heart out, do that.

What you can do next is reach out to your closest people. Confide in them and express your feelings. Seek their advice on how to tackle such a situation. They might be able to help you feel better and also guide you about what you should do next.

When you have finally acknowledged the situation and are at terms with it, try to assess why it all happened. Why did your partner cheat on you? What were their intentions when they cheated on you? Try to think about this from every angle.

It is quite normal to think that it is your fault that your partner has cheated on you. You may think that it is because of you that your partner found solace in someone else. These thoughts are very natural. But it isn’t your fault. Not at all.

Now that you have finally assessed this situation, evaluate your options. Can you afford to separate from your partner or do you want to forgive your partner? Try to carefully evaluate the consequences of what route you decide to take.

This may look like the sweetest option right now, but you may regret this for the rest of your life. Don’t stoop so low that you end up taking revenge on your partner by cheating on them with someone else. Don’t do this just because they did. Learn to accept, forgive or let go.



Read also: Love capsule: I secretly kept a Karwa Chauth fast for my brother-in-law

Read also: These zodiac signs act like a MOM!


Here are some things that you can do

When every sign indicates your partner’s infidelity, coming around the fact can be extremely difficult. It can be emotionally draining and devastating for you to come to terms with your partner’s infidelity. You may not understand how to react to such a situation because this can alter the situation in your family or relationship to an unimaginable extent. To help you figure out, here are some things you can do after you find out that your partner has cheated.

It is okay to cry in the ugliest way possible. Your heart and trust have been broken and it is only fair to allow yourself to mourn such a situation. Crying doesn't make you weak; it only makes you stronger as it helps you to vent out to a large extent. If you also need to scream your heart out, do that.

What you can do next is reach out to your closest people. Confide in them and express your feelings. Seek their advice on how to tackle such a situation. They might be able to help you feel better and also guide you about what you should do next.

When you have finally acknowledged the situation and are at terms with it, try to assess why it all happened. Why did your partner cheat on you? What were their intentions when they cheated on you? Try to think about this from every angle.

It is quite normal to think that it is your fault that your partner has cheated on you. You may think that it is because of you that your partner found solace in someone else. These thoughts are very natural. But it isn’t your fault. Not at all.

Now that you have finally assessed this situation, evaluate your options. Can you afford to separate from your partner or do you want to forgive your partner? Try to carefully evaluate the consequences of what route you decide to take.

This may look like the sweetest option right now, but you may regret this for the rest of your life. Don’t stoop so low that you end up taking revenge on your partner by cheating on them with someone else. Don’t do this just because they did. Learn to accept, forgive or let go.



Read also: Love capsule: I secretly kept a Karwa Chauth fast for my brother-in-law

Read also: These zodiac signs act like a MOM!


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