Honeymoon is something that most couples, on the threshold of tying the knot, are excited about. Once you’ve tied the knot with your knight-in-shining armour, you start imagining about time you’ll get to spend with him all alone. However, these days a lot of couples prefer to delay their honeymoon, since it eases out a lot of things for them. In spite of the romance and excitement around a honeymoon, a lot of couples are choosing rethink it over practically.
Referred to as delayed honeymoon, couples reason out on why it’s a better option.
Manage finances Most couples these days plan their wedding on their own, right from the venue to the food. In fact, a lot of couples prefer to go on a self-paid honeymoon, as the wedding involves a lot of their parents’ money. With a delayed honeymoon the couple buy time to plan their finances, save up a little and go for their most-awaited holiday ever. They then sort out their priorities, and choose to do things they want to do and spend more on shopping, luxury stay or adventure activities. This break helps prepare them financially, so that the honeymoon doesn’t in any way leave a financial glitch in their daily life. There’s absolutely no point paying installments for the fun at the honeymoon.
Leave management Getting married is as complicated and time consuming as building Rome. It takes months to complete the arrangements — you have to keep taking leaves on and off during the preparations, as well as during the wedding, since it’s ‘your’ wedding. At least a week or ten-days of leave is a must, as there are several last minute things that need to be done. Besides, it also involves numerous ceremonies and dinner parties that you have to attend before and after the wedding. Moreover, as you need some time to recuperate the stress, you won’t be able to resume work immediately. Most organisations hesitate from sanctioning too long leaves. This can be sorted if you plan a delayed honeymoon, just a two-three month break and you can then go for a long honeymoon. This would not just help keep up your leave record but also save up some time to plan.
Privacy on off-season trips Isn’t it extremely boring to be waiting in a two-hour long queue for your turn to board the cable car to catch the breathtaking view of the Swiss Alps? It is. Peak seasons are the most inappropriate time to visit a place, since most tourist destinations are overcrowded. Moreover, there are times you will have be cramped in a single ride or experience the starry beach in Maldives along with millions of other people. Privacy, is one the most important aspects of a honeymoon which is compromised during peak season, a delayed honeymoon in an off-season ensures privacy at its best. Just imagine exploring the serene beaches and mountains all by yourself, without getting pushed by or disturbed by people around you.
Better deals Wedding seasons are always the most expensive and peak times when it comes to planning honeymoons. Most honeymoon destinations are over-priced, you might just end up compromising on quality. Moreover, since most honeymoons are planned in a jiffy keeping the wedding dates in mind, one might miss out on some great deals as last-minutes packages are always expensive and planned to wrap up things quicker. However, one can always avail better deals on a delayed honeymoon. One can ponder on various destinations, weigh the pros and cons of each place, compare rates and then finalise on the best ones.
Interesting options A delayed honeymoon leaves you with ample of time to make better choices for the most special holiday. Right from the place you stay — if you want it to be spa resort or a boutique hotel. Similarly, you can pick and choose places you want to visit and things you want to see. As a couple, you might want to spend more time discovering each other on a serene deck in Belize than shopping at the local market or seeing tribal dance. In fact, you can also make your honeymoon, a one-of-a-kind experience by adding different things like snorkelling, bungee jumping or sky diving if you are an adventure lover or discovering smaller islands and its specialities if you like exploring new things, etc.
The wait makes it more special Lastly, the wait for the honeymoon makes it more special for both the partners. Of course, you will be staying in the same house after your wedding and getting to know more of each other every day. However, an impending holiday after being official married, just with an intention to relax and discover each other more, is definitely exciting. It helps you learn to keep patience for the good things to come in life, even if they are late.