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Ways to tell if the attraction between you and someone is real

TIMESOFINDIA.COM | Last updated on - Nov 22, 2021, 15:00 IST
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These tips can come in handy!

The tension of not knowing whether someone likes you back is real. Love and attraction are a crazy combination. People are often shy when it comes to admitting their feelings for one another. And so, unless the other person confesses, it’s difficult to know whether they like you back or not. But fret not. There are ways to understand whether the attraction is mutual or not. Let’s now navigate some of these ways to know if your crush has a thing for you.

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Conversations

If you notice the person being interested in whatever you have to say then there might be some sparks between you both. If the person is equally contributing to the conversation by listening, asking questions and stating opinions, then that should be one of the major hints.

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Eye contact

Eyes never lie, chico. This famous dialogue does justice to love portrayed in the eyes. A person’s love is evident in their eyes and so, if someone who likes you is talking to you upfront, you can see that special look in their eyes that suggest attraction between you both is pretty mutual.

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Efforts

If the person goes out of their way to do something for you, then it’s a major sign that they like you back. They might remember your favourite thing from a long time ago or may be eager to help you out in times of need. The effort counts and tells a lot.

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Closeness

When that person is attracted to you as well, they will find little ways to get closer to you. Whether it’s scooching a little towards your seat, leaning forward when you talk or brushing their fingers against your hands, these are major signs that they’ve got the hots for you too.

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Blush

You will notice a certain blush or a slight colour on their cheeks if the person is into you. If you’re looking to understand whether that person is into you or not, pay attention to small details like blush on cheeks. This will indicate whether the attraction between you and your crush is mutual or not.



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