Check out these signs!
Do you feel that the amount of love your man has for you is fake? Understanding whether your man truly loves you is a bit difficult, especially if he is very good at pretending or hiding his true colours. These types of people are like a chameleon, they can change their colours or personalities really fast, giving you no space to understand who that person really is. But if there’s at least some confusion in your mind, regarding your man’s love for you, here are some signs you need to look out for.
Lack of consistency
A man who only pretends to love you may display inconsistent behaviour. He may shower you with attention and affection one moment but will withdraw or be emotionally distant the next. This inconsistency may leave you feeling confused and uncertain about his feelings for you.
Sole interest in physical intimacy
Another sign that a man may be pretending to love you is if he is only interested in getting physically intimate with you. He may be charming and affectionate but only when he wants to be intimate. He may show little interest in your emotional needs or spending time with you outside of a sexual context.
Avoiding emotional intimacy
If a man is only pretending to love you, he may avoid emotional intimacy. He may be hesitant to open up about his feelings or share his life with you. He may also avoid discussing future plans or making commitments that would require a deeper emotional connection. He may even dismiss your feelings and refuse to talk about them.
Lack of respect
A man who only pretends to love you may not treat you with respect. He may disregard your feelings, dismiss your opinions, or belittle your accomplishments. He may also be controlling or manipulative, trying to mold you into someone that fits his idea of the ‘perfect’ partner. He won’t accept your true, authentic self.
Inconsistent with his words and actions
He will pretend to do one thing but will end up doing another thing altogether. He may make promises or commitments that he doesn't keep, or say things that contradict his actions. This inconsistency can leave you feeling unsure about his intentions and whether he truly loves you.
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