Those of us who have tried to keep a relationship alive over the miles knows it is no easy task. All the more if your partner is living in another time zone. However, if you are willing to work it out, here's how to give it every chance to survive and thrive.
Show that you careIf you'd like to just keep it going, then you can survive many years despite being far away.
But if you really want the spark to keep going then show that you care. The number one rule is communicate every single day. Consider using Skype video chat calls every day, text messages, phone calls and email every day. It is important to maintain contact and be in each other's daily lives as much as possible. Exchange videos and photos of the interesting moments of your day-to-day life. This will keep your presence active in your partner's life.
Set a time to talkThis is very important in the case of couples who live in different time zones. Fix a time which is comfortable for both. If you are going to be busy at the set time it is important to tell the partner before hand to avoid misunderstandings.
Trust, don't be complacentWhen in a long distance relationship, being suspicious of your partner's whereabouts can tear you apart. You need to trust your partner, but at the same time shouldn't be complacent. The trick is to stay alert without getting paranoid. Physical distance widens the emotional gap.
Be like a normal coupleRegular couples do not spend the majority of their time talking, but rather doing things with each other. Try to replicate this. Interaction over the phone can become dull in the long run. Find creative ways to bond. Watch the same movie or read the same book and talk about it. Both of you can set a reminder at the same time on your phones. Make it a point to think of each other when the reminder rings, and revel in the fact that he or she is thinking about you, too.
Make the most of your time togetherTime together is rare, so when you do see each other, try to make the best of it. Take as much advantage as possible of your ability to get intimate with each other. Make sure your friends know that your partner is around and keep the DND sign up!