These few things attract them like bees to honey
If you want to attract someone, make people notice you, then you have to be a little mysterious. A mysterious aura always attracts us and leaves a lot to our imagination. If you want to be that mysterious person to attract someone then these 6 tips may come in handy.
The eye contact
Make eye contact because that shows you are confident however, do not hold it for long. Keep that contact for 2-3 seconds and then break it unless you will come off as an intimidating person and borderline creepy too.
Read and add to your knowledge
To be a good conversationalist and look intelligent, you cannot bluff so easily because you will be cross questioned. So start reading the daily newspaper, read some books for a good vocab and take interest in a few activities and subjects. Every man or woman with grey matter is intrigued when they notice that you know things and can hold a conversation.
Cross question
Don’t just be a good listener and nod only. You must ask questions as that makes you mysterious and attractive too. It shows that you are paying attention plus you can stay away from revealing personal details in those small talks. Let the other person talk and show interest in them.
Don’t reveal everything about yourself
People often like to talk and then they do not know when to stop. When you volunteer information, you are not even close to being mysterious. The other will have no inclination to ask you more questions because you have already revealed everything about yourself. So keep your answers crisp. If you want to share a few things, just make sure you have help back the key pieces of information.
Stay calm
Animated conversationalists leave very little for imagination. They attract all attention and are far from being mysterious. When someone is quiet and calm, with a few intelligent answers or words dropping here and there, it immediately intrigues the other person in that room. Just be calm, maintain your posture, no matter what the situation is.
Don’t be available all the time
If you are always there, you come across as a very eager person. It is good to be there but not always. Don’t show up every time. Be occasionally available. This translates into your phone calls, the text messages response time and video calls and parties. Hold yourself, keep it together no matter how much you want to respond.
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