His story: We had a love marriage and it was good until we started sharing the bed. My wife started asking me to sleep in the guest room because she says she likes her space on the bed. We have a king-size bed that is enough to fit three people! Earlier I thought it was due to my snoring, but she stood by her initial reasoning of space. It has been 3 weeks and I feel frustrated. I tried talking some sense into her but nothing positive has come out of it.
Her story: I love my husband but after our marriage I realized he is a heavy snorer. I am a light sleeper and I like pin-drop silence. I was having sleepless nights sharing the bed with him. He did confront me but I was unable to tell him the truth as I thought it might hurt him, so I said I needed my space because I was a single child and never had to share the bed. He seems heartbroken and it has been 3 weeks since we slept together. I don’t know how to handle this situation.
Expert advice by Vishal Bhardwaj, Founder, and Relationship Coach at Predictions For SuccessThe indelible truth is no relationship is perfect and love is all about putting someone else's wish in front! Suppose a relationship becomes the sole medium for draining pleasure and none of the counterparts are emotionally invested in it. In that case, the essence of the relationship seems like more of a mutual treaty.
For HimYou have held someone's hand for the rest of your life. If you sense something is going off in your relationship, there is no better way than holding a peaceful conversation with your spouse. No matter how much she pretends or tries to hide the truth, your genuine approach will be able to uncover the mystery. Also, do not forget that she is your companion for the rest of your life. You both are equal in a relationship. Everything belongs to both of you: hardship, happiness, euphoria, and enormity. Just express how desolate you feel when you are asked to leave your bedroom.
For HerYour relationship with your husband is not just about finding comfort and pleasure. As humans of flesh and blood, we all have our downsides. Moreover, snoring is an inconsequential natural occurrence. Sending your husband outside of the bedroom because of his snoring sounds frivolous. He as a husband has accepted you just the way you are. Also, as a wife, you are supposed to do the same. No relationship is perfect with all the miracles in it, your effort and perseverance make them more than a miracle. Just confront the truth and together you people work on the problem.
Also, consult an ENT for snoring issues; the expert might suggest some good workarounds like noise cancellation earphones, earbuds, and even some medication for your husband.
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