Your sex life can be the best you can imagine if both partners are in sync. But, there are still so many women out there who are sexually frustrated in their marriages. Men still don’t know and do not even try to make things work for their wives. Here are some women who have anonymously confessed the reasons why they are unhappy sexually regardless of having married a “hira”.
No foreplay
My husband and I had a love marriage. We had made out before and I used to get butterflies back then. After marriage whenever we wanted to have sex, my husband would give me a kiss and just head for the sex rather than trying foreplay. It has been 2 years and I now avoid him when he wants to do it because I feel nothing. I am not even turned on. I have tried to show him so many adult movies and even discussed with him that I need foreplay but he makes no effort. So now we go weeks without sex. He shows me his frustration and I show him mine!
His libido is so sad
I have always had a good libido. My husband used to flaunt a lot about his sex life before me and I thought boy I am in for a good time but little did I know that he talked nonsense! He cannot last for more than 10 minutes, which is just a warm-up for me. In addition, when he is done, he gets up and leaves me just like that to wash up. When I confronted him about my orgasm and my satisfaction, he was clueless about what to do. It is so frustrating that I have begun daydreaming about cheating on him just for sex.
He just likes missionary
There were times when I would let it slide because something is better than nothing but now, it is frustrating. I am married to an older man who is super hot and very rich but when it comes to sex, he is just lazy and rigid. We have been married for 3 years now but my husband does not try different sex positions. I even got him an illustrated Kamasutra so that we can try something new. We have our own house with a beach view. There is 100 % privacy and you would think that we have sex like bunnies but the truth is we do it like a routine, in the very same way we did it yesterday. I don’t know why is this because whenever I bring it up we end up fighting.
He is too sober
My husband and I love sex. We do it a lot but my unhappiness comes from him not trying sex toys. I love trying everything we can. He has been good with different positions but to make it less monotonous I bought two sex toys. My husband lost his calm and thought I was challenging his capabilities. It was a reaction I least expected from an educated man like him. Ever since I have been sharing articles with him, showing him movies and Instagram accounts of experts. I hope to reach somewhere soon and change the mindset of this sober boy.