A casual fling or secure relationship?

Flings or relationships? This seems to be a tricky one. Many choose to have a secure relationship while some prefer the thrill that tags along by having a fling. Some want a relationship for fun and some want it to culminate into something deeper. To each its own and so are the preferences. The pro’s and cons of flings – 1. Flings are not usually serious. Couples to have flings know that they are there just to have fun and hang out with each other. 2. If you don’t have time to spend with your partner, it absolutely fine. Your partner wouldn’t mind it if you did not call or meet him that day. 3. The best part of flings is that it can always be turned into something more. If you both had a blast together, then what’s the harm in taking it to the next level?4. There is no stability in a fling. It can last a month, a week or even a night. But, doesn’t that make it more exciting?The pros n cons of relationships—1. Break-ups are painful but an inevitable part of a relationship. It takes months and sometimes even years to get over that pain.2. If the relationship has blossomed into something beautiful, then it is worth being with a person who keeps you happy and fulfilled.3. Sex with someone you love is different than someone you have a casual fling with.4. A stable relationship sometimes lacks the thrill and adventure of a fling. Even if you fancy someone, there is no way you can take any step further.Flings can be a lot of fun if the person is right. Relationships take time to develop into something strong. Flings or relationships. What do you choose?