Had a break up?
Sometimes, we realise the value of things or people in life only when they are no longer a part of it. This applies to our love life as well. A person might break up and part ways only to repent it later. Has something similar happened to you? Is your girlfriend acting weird and looking for ways to get in touch with you? Is it mere friendship or does she still harbour romantic feelings for you? Well, here are six signs that indicate she is pretty willing to date you again and maybe, is expecting you to make a move.
Social media
She has not stopped following you on social media platforms and still keeps a tab on your online activities. She might still ‘like’ and comment on your posts to hint nothing went wrong between you and her. The mere fact that she has not blocked you from anywhere and is trying to stay in touch indicates that something is brewing in her mind.
She finds excuses to stay in touch with you
Did she call you just to know how are you doing? Or, she specially pings you to ask something that she can look up online or ask her friends? If she looks for ways to meet you in person or catch up with you over a call, it indicates she still wants to be an ‘active’ part of your life and might be brooding over whether breaking up with you was the right decision or not.
What you talk
Try analysing the conversations you have with her. Do you both go down the memory lane and recollect the happy incidents? Do you discuss how you both could have handled the situation better and avoided the break-up? Or, she still compliments you and hints you were a great boyfriend? If the answer to any of these questions if a yes, it’s a sign she is still interested in you.
The reason of the break-up
This one is pretty obvious. Somehow, she knows you both broke up over a silly reason, and you can sense that too. She hints there is still scope to make things work and want to give the relationship another chance.
She is not willing to date someone else
This can be your strongest cue. She does not just look for ways to stay in touch with you, but has also hinted or clarified that she is not up for dating anyone else. Your ex is definitely taking her own time to weigh the pros and cons of coming back in your life and could be even asking her close friends for advice on this.
She enquires about your love life
This is another strong clue that shows she might be still possessive about you and won’t be happy if you date someone else. If she is curious to know what all is happening in your love life, who are the people you are hanging out with and whether you have an account on a dating app or not, we bet she is not willing to let you go from her life.
However!
Well, even if your ex-girlfriend is eager to date you again, do not jump the gun. Take your time and think about what are your true needs from a partner and a relationship. It’s important that you have clarity on this topic before holding a conversation with her, and you should reignite the relationship for only the right reasons.
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