Check what these people have to say
Divorce is a different experience for everyone, all together. Some find it incredibly liberating while some mope around, thinking about their heartbreak. People react differently to divorce since it is a life-changing experience and can alter one’s path entirely. There are a lot of emotions at play here, which go through a lot of stages. Here is what some people have to say about, what life is like after divorce.
Leaving me for someone else
“My ex-wife left me for someone she had just met. She destroyed our marriage of seven years over a man she just met a few months before. That’s where I felt hurt and rejected the most. I have become lonely, disappointed and very grumpy. My family has brought many rishtas, but I refuse to acknowledge any. I don’t trust anyone enough to be my partner anymore.”
Abusive marriage
“I felt free to escape from a marriage where my husband tortured me every day. He emotionally abused me, and I never felt safe when I was with him. So, on the day when our divorce got finalised, I felt the happiest. It is lonely to be single, but much better than being in an abusive marriage.”
Irreconcilable differences
“I simply no longer loved my husband. My parents have been my idols when it comes to being in a happy and healthy marriage. And so, the thought of being in an unhappy one got my gears going. There were certain aspects of my husband that I absolutely hated, and so, divorcing him would be the best possible way. I feel distressed yet happier after divorcing my husband because it means I have the opportunity to find love once again.”
Long time for healing
“It took me a long time to heal from my divorce. I had started drinking, reminiscing about the days with my wife, when we spent time together. I listened to sad songs and cried almost every day. Losing my wife was unbearable at first, but slowly, I started focusing on myself and things slowly got better. After 10 months, I feel like finding myself on the right path once again.
Chance of remarrying
“I remarried, once I divorced my ex-husband. My previous marriage had a lot of problems that I was unwilling to experience. When my family brought another rishta in front of me, after my divorce, I was flabbergasted because I didn’t know if I would be able to commit myself to another man again. But now that I think about it, I am truly grateful for the opportunity because life is much simpler when you are with the right person and in a happy marriage.”
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