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How to have a long-lasting sex life

TNN | Last updated on - Jun 15, 2023, 15:14 IST
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Tips from real life couples for a happy sex life

You have been married for years and sex has become dull or just like a routine. Not only that, gradually it's getting infrequent. What do you do? Here are tips from real life couples who are still having passionate sex

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​They show love

<p>Whoever told you that sex positions or sex toys made sex exciting, missed the biggest reason - you have to feel love towards your partner to enjoy sex. Pay a compliment, make surprise dinner plans, text something sweet in the middle of a dull day. Just how happy you are outside the bedroom decides how well you will get along in the bed.<br></p>
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​Talk about sex

<p>Share a dirty dream. Tell her you loved the new position she suggested. Praise her and ask for feedback in a casual way. These are all baby steps towards a hot sex.<br></p>
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Make her reach orgasm

<p>Orgasm isn't a big deal for most men, since it is a given for them but data reveals only 66 per cent women achieved orgasm during sex. So focus on arousing her and make it pleasurable for her. She will in turn make your time worthwhile.<br></p>
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​Add variety

<p>If you have sex with the same person in the same room, it will get boring. Try new places and newer positions. Switch things up so it doesn't feel like a routine.<br></p>
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​Set the stage

<p>Create an intimate setting and set the mood with may be interesting lighting and music. These things will make a big difference to your sex life. (Picture Courtesy: Shutterstock Images)<br></p>

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