How to parent your child, as per their personality trait

Every child is unique and special in their own ways. Some are sensitive, others more resilient, then there are those who are emotionally intelligent and witty at the same time. But the personalities of children are diverse. One can have varied qualities at the same time. As a parent, the trick is to understand how your child is, how they behave, what they like, things that excite them and more. That said, here are some personality traits of kids to know and ways to nurture them... But mind you, your child can be a lot more than just these traits.

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A child who is a thinker is quiet, quite organized and very calculative before responding or reacting to something, which is a good thing. They can be curious too and may come up with a lot of questions. While it may sometimes become a little frustrating for parents to answer to all the 'whys' or to be constantly corrected for something they say or do, based on their child's understanding.

That's when patience comes in. Do not shut them out or tell them to stop asking questions. Rather provide them with the information that they need or explain to them why you did what you did. Cultivate their minds and encourage them to learn new exciting things. That said, introduce them to puzzles, brain teasers and books.

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A sensitive child is very emotional, they feel almost everything. Something as trivial as a tap on the head, a scolding or a 2-minute lecture can also bring tears to their eyes. Parents have to be extremely careful around kids who are sensitive. Irrespective of whose fault it is, they may take it all upon themselves. While they're mature, parents should not expect them to be adults. And definitely, punishing them is never the answer. Make sure you hear them out, let them express and guide them wherever they need your help.

Performers are not afraid of conversations. They're not shy, introverted or frightened of confrontation. On the contrary, they enjoy attention, a little crowd to cheer them up. So parents of children with this personality type should not stop their kids for being who they are. Instead engage them, nurture their passion. If they like performing on stage, doing mimicry, acting, help them pursue it further.

Having a wild child may be difficult and even challenging. They're not very obedient and you may find it hard to tame them. But the good thing about them is they're full of optimism and passion for life. They approach things with positivity and given that they listen to their heart, they're very content. However, if you want them to complete a task, help them understand why and also provide them simple instructions. Do not command them, rather get to their level and have a meaningful conversation.

Children with the 'wallflower' personality are shy and love to remain in their comfort zone. They are not very extroverted and maintain their distance from strangers. They like quiet, silent places and avoid any form of interaction. That said, parents must be very cautious to not invade their child's personal space while also helping them become more social. Do not expect them to suddenly become a different person. Give them time and brief them before visiting a new place or new people. They sure do not like such surprises.

The explorers are curious and inquisitive kids. They are fascinated by anything that's new around them. They do not limit themselves to what their eyes see, their ears hear or their nose can smell. They like to do it all at once and feel everything. Kids with these qualities are fearless, but sometimes that can be dangerous. Treading into undiscovered terrains can be concerning. That said, parents must accompany them and/or should know what their child is up to. Do not be too overprotective or controlling, but also make sure they're not hurt.