'My duty to keep her happy’: Retired judge welcomes divorced daughter home with dhol, dance, and pride

In a society where divorce is still often whispered about or seen as a failure, a family in Meerut has done something unusual: they celebrated when their daughter’s marriage legally ended. Instead of hiding the divorce, they welcomed her home with music, garlands, and a dhol procession, turning an emotional moment into a powerful statement about dignity, independence, and changing societal attitudes towards separation.

‘My duty to keep her happy’, says father, a retired Meerut judge, after his daughter’s divorce

The scene felt like a gentle rebellion against stigma, as the family in Meerut chose to celebrate rather than mourn when their daughter’s divorce was granted by the Meerut Family Court on April 4.

"If my daughter is not happy in marriage, it is my duty to bring her out of that environment. We did not seek alimony or anything else. I just brought my daughter back," Dr Sharma, the father told PTI.

Instead of a sad homecoming, the family welcomed their daughter, Pranita with drums, dance, sweets, and garlands, turning the legal end of an eight‑year marriage into a joyful and empowering moment, according to a PTI report.

A homecoming full of joy, not shame

Viral videos showed Pranita’s relatives outside the Meerut Family Court, as they matched the dhol beats, danced, and distributed sweets as she walked out after the verdict. Her family wore black T‑shirts printed with her photo and the words “I Love My Daughter,” making a legal exit into a public declaration of support.


According to PTI reports, her father, retired judge Gyanendra Sharma, personally greeted her with flowers, making it clear that she was returning home with dignity, not disgrace.

This show of celebration challenges the common belief in parts of India that a woman returning to her parents after divorce is a failure or a tragedy. Here, the family framed the divorce as a liberation from years of alleged harassment and unhappiness, not as a social stain.

Eight‑year marriage ends after alleged harassment

According to the family, Pranita married Army Major Gaurav Agnihotri in December 2018, but the marriage gradually turned stressful. Her father stated that she struggled emotionally in her marital home and allegedly faced “continuous mental, emotional, and physical harassment,” and even the birth of their son did not improve the situation, according to a Free Press Journal report.
After years of trying to preserve the relationship, Pranita decided to prioritise her well‑being and filed for divorce in the Meerut Family Court, which then brought legal closure to the long‑standing dispute. Notably, the family told the press that they neither sought nor accepted alimony or any material compensation, showing that their priority was her safety and happiness, not money.

Education, work, and family support as anchors

Pranita, who now works as a Finance Director holds a postgraduate degree in psychology, a background that underpins her focus on mental health and resilience.

Pranita’s advice to women facing abuse

FPJ report states that while speaking after the court verdict, Pranita urged women facing harassment to speak up and seek help rather than suffer in silence. She encouraged them to focus on education, self‑reliance, and emotional strength before entering marriage, arguing that independence allows individuals to make healthier life choices.