When Raj Babbar opened up on painful moments after Smita Patil’s demise: ‘Never had enough time to plan things for Prateik’

Actors Raj Babbar and Smita Patil’s love story was far from straightforward. It was an emotional maze, filled with intense feelings, unspoken worries, and moments of tender togetherness. Their relationship began on the sets of ‘Bheegi Palkein’, where Raj, who was already married to theatre actor Nadira Babbar, found himself drawn to Smita’s fearless nature and striking individuality.

Their bond quickly became the talk of the industry. Smita was known for her powerful performances in films like ‘Manthan’, ‘Arth’ and ‘Mirch Masala’, and her deep-rooted commitment to meaningful cinema. Raj, meanwhile, balanced his theatre pursuits with mainstream films, and was seen as someone who lived life with passion. Together, they shared a connection that was intense, complicated, and yet beautifully human.

‘I wish she were around to see her son growing’
In 1986, Raj and Smita welcomed their son Prateik. For a while, it seemed like their family was finally taking shape. But life had other plans. Just days after Prateik was born, Smita passed away due to post-partum complications.


Raj once opened up about this painful time while talking to Rediff.com. Looking back at their short time as parents, he shared, “She was a great human being. We never had enough time to plan things for our son Prateik. I guess he will be doing films shortly. He is already getting calls from various producers and directors. I have given him a free hand to do that. I wish she were around to see her son growing.”


An evening that changed everything
Raj also recalled the evening when everything turned upside down. He said, “The most painful moments of life are those which come unexpected. One fine evening, when I was getting ready to go for a function I saw her quivering. I touched her and found that she had a fever. I called the doctor and he told me that she needs immediate hospitalisation. I took her to hospital and she was being removed to the intensive care unit.”

It all happened so suddenly, “Thoughout the journey from home to hospital, she kept apologising and I told her that everything would be okay. She looked at me with tears in her eyes. Her look said it all. The doctor came out after an hour and said she had gone into a coma.”


Memories that never fade
Even though years have passed, Raj has never forgotten Smita. In fact, her memories still live on in him every single day. He spoke from the heart when he said, “I was part of her and she was part of me. It is natural that you miss a person who was your heart and soul throughout your life, no matter how brave you may say you are. She and her memories will continue to be part of me till my last day.”