Jaya Bachchan shares her take on gender dynamics and chivalry; thinks women who pay on a date are stupid

In a recent episode Navya Nanda’s podcast, the spotlight shifted to masculinity. The host engaged her brother, Agastya Nanda, to offer a male perspective on the evolving notions of masculinity. Joined by regular guests Jaya Bachchan and Shweta Bachchan Nanda, the discussion touched upon how changing societal trends and feminism have impacted traditional gender dynamics.

Navya, acknowledging her brother's sensitivity and openness, delved into the concept of 'toxic masculinity,' emphasizing the importance of intent behind actions. Agastya emphasized that the motive behind actions determines whether they contribute to toxic masculinity. For instance, holding a door open for someone out of kindness is acceptable, but doing it with a sense of superiority could be problematic.



The conversation turned to the evolving dynamics of dating and chivalry, particularly in the context of women's empowerment. Navya noted that post-feminism, women often prefer independence in various aspects of life, including paying for a date. However, Jaya Bachchan interjected, expressing her disagreement with women who offer to split the check. In her view, men should be the ones to pay. She said, “How stupid of those women. You should let the men pay.”

Shweta Bachchan Nanda reflected on the traditional expectations around dating, where men were expected to take the initiative in proposing and approaching women. Jaya Bachchan added that she would prefer a man to take the lead in proposing, admitting she would feel awkward otherwise.


Agastya contributed to the discussion on chivalry, highlighting that expressing a willingness to pay for a meal can be appreciated if done out of kindness rather than a sense of obligation as the provider. Jaya Bachchan emphasized the importance of good manners, differentiating between genuine chivalry and toxic behavior.

This episode adds to the ongoing conversations around changing gender dynamics and expectations, offering insights into the perspectives of different generations within the Bachchan family.